How Bach remedies help parents to reset their nervous system when kids get average score / marks in 10th grade board exams : Rakshaa Chhabriaa
- Team Stay Featured
- Aug 2
- 5 min read
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As a Bach Flower Practitioner , An emotional wellness coach and a busy mum of 2 boys , I know firsthand how easy it is to be totally imbalanced , nervous while you happily think you are worried and anxious about your child’s future and admissions and how average marks will not tick the boxes of many top colleges and courses . Also the stress and shock of your beloved child missing on achieving admission in his dream college or course puts you further more in a dejected state as if it was your admission . Furthermore , the tormenting thoughts of paying high fees for the average college also makes you feel sad and helpless .
While caring and loving for your children can be incredibly rewarding , it can also be exhausting and daunting at such times .
Without proper support, the emotional weight of caregiving can take a toll leading to stress, burnout, fatigue and a sense of overwhelm.
Whatever you are feeling at this crucial time , you need a reset and not sympathy.
Bach flower remedies offer gentle support to bring back a sense of balance. Because in this state of energetic balance you will be able to see the good , accept the reality and forge ahead with positivity .
And since energy is transferable , it can be both beautiful and challenging. Your energy is what your child willl feed on at this time .
As parents, we witness our children experiencing a range of feelings like joy, fear, uncertainty, and everything in between.
By keeping yourself calm and balanced , you can indirectly help their emotional awareness and independence giving them the confidence to articulate their feelings and manage their emotions.
Each parent’s experience is different, which is why Bach Remedies work best when chosen to match your unique emotional state.
How can Bach remedies support at this crucial time ?
Imagine each flower is like a tiny genie ready to transform you when you're feeling sad, nervous , angry , dejected , victimised , scared, insecure and unsure.
These special remedies have unique powers to make you feel awesome , positive , balanced , calm and more confident of course .

Let’s explore how Bach Remedies can help:
Agrimony
You are trying to be happy and make others happy but are extremely worried that you are cleverly hiding behind your smile. But remember this cleverness can cost you dearly with health repercussions.
Aspen
You are feeling extremely fearful or uneasy without any apparent or specific reason .
Beech
You find it hard to swallow the indifference of others and behave extremely intolerant.
Cerato
You start doubting your decisions and rely on others to do the right thing. You have lost trust in your own decision making power and feel more helpless and under confident .
Cherry Plum
You get teary often , angry and irritated often and really fear losing control and do something you will later regret. You don’t understand why you are behaving so irrational instead of being calm .
Chestnut Bud
You keep making the same mistakes and struggle to learn from them everyday . This is now a pattern and you are stuck in the loop .
Chicory
You suddenly need more lot attention and validation and feel hurt if you do not get it .
Clematis
You are lost in worries all the time even when you are amidst people and don't pay much attention to what's happening presently in front of you. Hemce you miss out on joy of the present moment .
Crab Apple
You don't know what to say about how you are feeling , but you feel horrible maybe unclean and dislike your own self .
Elm
You feel that there’s so much you have to do but can’t handle the tasks and feel very upset and sad .
Holly
You feel angry and jealous towards others .
Honeysuckle
You keep comparing this situation to the past times and feel bad .
Hornbeam
You feel lethargic , disinterested in tasks and keep procrastinating your tasks unless it becomes urgent . You lack the motivation and energy to do tasks at hand .
Impatiens
You feel very impatient and always rush to finish everything.
Larch
You feel under confident and think others are better than you.
Mimulus
You are afraid of the anticipation of the average marks or score .
Mustard
You feel sad for no real reason and find it difficult to break through this sadness and gloom .
Oak
You keep on going and pushing yourself through without pausing when you're tired .
Pine
You feel regret and guilt and blame yourself for everything wrong .
Red Chestnut
You worry too much about your child’s safety .
Rock Water
You start being too hard on yourself and it’s difficult to go with the flow .
Scleranthus
You are always oscillating to make decisions and keep changing your mind all the time .
Star of Bethlehem
You are very sad as well as shocked after the result of average scores .
Sweet Chestnut
You feel like you've reached your end and can't take this turmoil any more and lose all hope .
Vine
You start being very bossy and controlling everything around . with others.
Walnut
You cannot cope with this change and adapt to it .
Water Violet
You prefer to be alone and start coming across as distant to others.
White Chestnut
You can't stop the overthinking and mind running about the same things over and over.
Wild Rose
You don't feel excited about anything in life and find it hard to get motivated or take interest in things.
Willow
You feel victimised and like life is unfair .

Why Personalised Remedies Work Best?
Every parent’s experience is unique, which is why a one-size-fits-all approach doesn’t give accurate results .
Prioritising your emotional wellbeing isn’t selfish, it’s essential and a part of self love . When you feel stronger and calmer that’s exactly what you give at such times to your kids .
Take Care of Yourself While Worrying for your children .
If results are taking an emotional toll, Bach flower remedies can offer gentle but powerful support.
About the author
Since 2002 , Rakshaa Chhabriaa has been using Bach Remedies and is the driving force behind the amazing recoveries and results of people globally .
Crafting thousands of personalised remedies, Rakshaa has supported individuals' and helped people balance their nervous systems with Bach Remedies as well as Emotional Counseling.
Rakshaa is readily available for consultations , offering personalised advice to guide you on the path to holistic wellness.
It's important to note that she's qualified with 2 decades of experience and expertise ensuring that every consultation and remedy adheres for expert care and precision .
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